Give and Take
Whatever is due to you, you will get it; whether it is love or hate
You take birth in this human body to undergo certain experiences, to live your life and settle old balances. Once the desires/experiences are fulfilled, there is nothing to undergo. My human body went through different experiences. Once it is over, there are no more bodily relationships… only spiritual relationships with everyone.
Similarly, what is due to your family that is about all the time you will have together with them. There is a give and take policy in the cycle of life. Whatever is due to you, you will get it; whether it is love or hate.
Over the ages, Mahaans (Raghavendra for example) have themselves gone through many hardships, even within their own families, and this is due to the give-and-take cycle that goes on over births till, as I have said, the balance accumulated of experiences is over.
When you come to me with total trust, I will ensure that your miseries do not affect you