Develop a Clear Vision
Do not compromise on your values in anyway
Given a task, let us not harm anyone, but if it requires a semblance of anger to get the task done, there is nothing wrong in displaying anger.
Secondly, when you are involved in a task, you get into several obligations. Some may be in tune with your concepts of living, some may not. So what must you do? Go ahead with what is all right by you; but do not compromise on your values in anyway. If a person comes to you with various tasks, do those that you can and complete them fast, so he will not harbour any vengeance on you for those that you cannot take up. Avoid the tasks that will land you in problems.
If you have a clear vision about your goal and do what you are prepared to do and avoid what you are not, then you will never land yourself in distress or defeat. Be very clear about what you want for yourself in life.
When you achieve a sense of satisfaction that you have done your task well, your self-esteem grows