The Limitless Phenomenon
If your love is sincere, then concentrate on knowing everyone as a form of God you love
Learn to love God directly as the one worth loving. If your love is sincere, then concentrate on knowing everyone as a form of God you love. But never develop attachment. That will turn into a source of annoyance for you.
You will miss this world during the time you spend on someone, because attachment has limitations. Loving God will never leave you depressed, because only God is a Limitless Phenomenon.
Spirituality is an unlimited phenomenon. How can a human being analyze it? None can know it fully. Only those who have become Limitless can guide. One who is complete in all respects can show the way.