It's In Your Hands
Man is a consequence of his own thoughts
If you observe persons who are miserable, you will find that they are more interested in worrying about the worry, than sorting out the worry itself. You know that if you scratch a wound, it will not heal. So what is the way to heal it? Apply medicine and allow it to heal.
Similarly, if you want to alleviate your misery, try to find solutions for it. There is no use remembering the sorrow and grumbling about it to everyone you meet; it will only increase your misery.
The quotation I cited, continues: “By the right choice he ascends. As a Being of power, intelligence and love and the Lord of his own thoughts, he holds the key to every situation”.
‘Enniya enniyaangu eidhuvar enniya thinniyaraaga perin’ - Man is a consequence of his own thoughts. Destroy yourself or elevate yourself. Your thoughts originate from within you.
God knows what is best for you. So give yourself up totally to Him. He will give you whatever is necessary. God has His own ways of handling things, so it is better to submit to His Judgement.