Eternal Happiness
Never ever assume you are sacrificing your interests for the sake of your family
Make a start by nurturing love for your family members. Then expand your love gradually and steadily to your neighbors, your country and everyone in the world. That is Grace.
Never ever assume you are sacrificing your interests for the sake of your family. Whatever you do for your family is your penance. Whatever you do for the society is your penance. Then you will be worthy of God’s Infinite Grace, which alone will lead to eternal happiness.
Do not presume that God will perform a miracle and take care of your worldly needs, after which you can retire to the solitude of the forests to do penance. That will never happen.
What makes you think your spiritual pursuit is outside of the purview of life? Spirituality is part of life; it is not something outside life.