Experience
Everything is intended to lead you unto yourself
No one’s experience is bigger or smaller to anyone else’s. Each to his own. How can anyone compare his experience to anyone else’s? It is possible that a slight breeze uproots a large banyan tree and it is possible that a willow tree can withstand the onslaught of hurricanes! Similarly no experience is good or bad.
Flow along with each experience as it comes, knowing fully well that whatever God does is always right for you. Everything is intended to lead you unto yourself.
Attaining God or comprehending His Presence must stem from you. No scriptures or mantras can lead you to the Truth. Self-realization is the natural consequence of taming your thoughts, and this is what spirituality is all about.
Spirituality is not taught. Life gives you various experiences, propels you through trials and tribulations to a destination and these experiences lead you to the ecstasy that spirituality is.