Only Love
You should not be something inside and something outside
When we are discussing love, love has no barriers.
“Anbirkkum undo adaikkum thazh”. When people feel comfortable with me, when children feel free to approach me and discuss their problems with me or express their love for me, why should I place a barrier for that? There is nothing wrong about love. Lust is wrong; love is not. People talk about love. Practice it. And if it really has some confusion, it cannot be transparent. Common sense logic. If there is some confusion in it, some cheap vulgarity in it, it cannot be so transparent.
Why am I so successful, tell me. I am very transparent. If I feel like hugging someone, I hug in front of everyone. If someone feels like hugging me, I just accept their expression. I do not carry anything in my mind.
As long as that transparency is there, you will not face any problems. You should not be something inside and something outside. If you believe in something, be assertive about it. What is wrong about love? Only hate is a sin, not Love.
Your best Valentine on this earth is God only. Only He fits into your definition of ‘caring and sharing’. God cares for you.