Perform!
You should not be mere spectators; you should become performers.

When a marriage takes place, you must not linger around the bridegroom or the bride. Take up some task willingly and handle it well. Then you would have contributed to the success of the ceremony.
When you display initiative and do something willingly, the couple will remember you. You should not be mere spectators; you should become performers.
For the world to become more peaceful and blissful, you must perform. Then when the world gets transformed into a paradise, people will be amazed at the initiative you displayed, the excellence of your work. That will give you eternal happiness.
Performance is Penance. Therefore, perform.
Just undergo the experiences of life and when realization has dawned upon you, you will know that what you are searching for is already in you and there was nothing to search at all. This happens on its own, at the appointed hour with the appointed person